it's probably going to sound heartless hearing me say this, but after how much my grandma has changed from dealing with dementia, i'm actually looking forward to her kicking the bucket. i've tried to be as nice as i could to her during her time like this, but she'll just turn around and be as nasty as can be.
she threw out my mom's dinner plates, accused my parents of stealing her check book, scratched up my stepdad's truck without apology, and now she's no longer putting any money into paying the bills. and before all of this began her attitude caused her to get kicked out of her own family member's houses when she tried to find a place to stay. she used to live in an apartment complex for seniors, but she even pissed off the friends she made there. she's caused enough damage to her own family, and i just want her to croak already.